Reciprocity

Guess it's best to keep my yap shut and wait until he inquires about it, if he does. Probably nothing to be gained by me initiating the conversation as I do agree that people have to want it for themselves and you can't provide them with that desire by preaching to them.

My answer is YES to all!

Geez! I wanted to pick that one as the lie because I figured those people were all done by like 1930 or so

I guess the reason I asked the question in the first place is what is embodied in your statement @Martian5: "they may have to learn on their own which most quitters have done". Yes, I eventually woke up eventually too but now wish I had years earlier. I guess it's in most of us to want to help others we care about with a wake-up call. That's why this is a tough one to give a "correct" answer to that will apply to the majority of people. I really do think this guy is heading down a road to somewhere I don't want to see him go & I just believe he will eventually regret not waking up sooner

My vote is .................... Jillar's running out of lies!!

Here's a link. Maybe this will help? https://uqr.me/qr-code-generator/blog/best-qr-code-readers/

@Sazerac, that's a great idea but the logistics of sending cards worldwide is an issue. It might have to be just a digital message that people can download to either their phone or to their printer to print out hard copies. I don't know how critical image sharpness for the QR codes is for reproduction on say an ink-jet printer.

Your response is interesting in a number of ways. I'm not sure I really understood the personal implications of smoking when I was a smoker. Oh sure, I knew all the statistics and had heard all the horror stories of what smoking had done to people but I was completely in denial I think. Not me - I'm special! Maybe - just maybe if someone I respected talked to me in a caring way about what their experience had been, before and after, then maybe I would have at least given it some thought? I agree, that talk would not have made me quit but start the thought process maybe? Maybe the approach next time is; "Hey Tom! Did you realize I quit smoking?" Then just see what the response is? Anyway, good food for thought.

Yes - it's the QR code you're referring to: I'm not techie either but once you have produced a QR code you can either download an app to read it or if your have an IPhone, I believe there's a built-in reader. You could convey the same info. by handing over a piece of paper with the QTrain website hhtp on it but using the QR code would be way cooler, depending on the demographics of who you are dealing with

You're talking about a card with a QR code on it? I wonder if it's possible to create and post a QR (quick response) code then print it out yourself and have it readable through the printout - or, send the image to your phone so you can whip it out and say, here. I'll send this to you so you can can check it out?

Yesterday I went fishing with a friend of mine who I hadn't seen in a few years. We used to go fishing pretty often until life got in the way. I knew he was a smoker of both cigarettes and pot (he LOVES his pot!!). Last time we were together I was a smoker too (cigarettes primarily). I was curious to see if he would say anything to me about why I wasn't smoking. Hey! We're stuck together in a 12 foot aluminum boat 8 km's (5 miles) out on Lake Erie for 6 hours so talk is gonna happen when we're not reeling in a fish! So he says nothing to me about why I was no longer smoking. I watch him going about 1 to 1 on the joints and cigarettes. I didn't say anything to him about his smoking but did notice him coughing and hacking, more when he was smoking the pot than when he was smoking cigarettes but still ..... there was clearly a lung issue going on there. This guy is probably mid-40's, overweight and still a heavy smoker when you combine both the cigs and the pot. I'm just wondering what others might do in a similar situation? Start a conversation about smoking in general or just remain silent unless the other person brings up the subject? I don't want to be one of those reformed smokers who pesters people about smoking but I also don't like seeing friends going down a path I know only leads to a bad place. What do think you would have done in the same circumstances? The reason I ask now is we will probably be going fishing again this year before the lakes freeze over. I will therefore have another opportunity to either do nothing or maybe say something? Oh yeah! We caught 5 decent size Walleye yesterday. They are a nice eating fish for those who don't know what a Walleye is. Moist, tender, non-fishy tasting white meat fish.

I'll take #0 (is that an option here?)

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True! TNP has caught a fish in the past year?

Nope!

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IMHO In My Humble Opinion - computer slang. IMHO you are doing a great job!

Oh, oh ........ forgot about this game Yes! #1 is the lie so Jordan is up! I have never had frostbite actually. Surprising as the outside temps can be brutal at times, especially if it's windy too! #2 Yeah, done that in my first real job. Worked for Capitol Record Club a looooooong time ago and they produced a best of rock hits recording that was offered as some sort of gift for joining the Club or something. I just went to the studio to make sure the correct bits of each some were featured in a commercial ad they wanted made. #3 was a Christmas present I got one year. Opportunity to go to a race track near me and take either a hopped-up Vette or a Mustang around the track for I think it was like 4 laps? I got kind of worried when they said that some people throw-up due to the G-force on turns - lol. It really wasn't that bad. I think they were just being overly dramatic

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There's a wealth of information available to us all when it comes to smoking and quitting. I'm glad you're looking into this kind of stuff. Every little bit helps you quit and stay quit. Knowledge is power!

Travelling - it's all going there!

Congrats to you Wantsit! 9 months smoke free is 3/4 of the way to a complete year. Next month you are into double digits and then time will fly by. You'll be on the Lido Deck before you know it! Let us know how you're celebrating

I'll assume you meant -1 so I will have another BIG O please! 0

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^^^^ Well, this is a good point you bring up. You just never know what even the worst of teams can do on any given day! I witnessed that last night watching a Canadian Football League game when the Toronto Argos beat the Winnipeg Blue Bombers somehow. Argos were down 20-0 at half time with zero wins this season and Winnipeg is the #1 team in the league this year. I fell asleep around half time and woke up with only a few mins left in the game and Toronto was winning? I was still a little groggy so thought; "Maybe I'm dreaming this?" Anyway, as one wise old baseball guy always said; "It ain't over till it's over!!"