Everything posted by c9jane29
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Can We Have A Curse It Thread(With warnings) As sometimes I Just Wanna FFFFFFFFFFFF
First freeze last night; woke up to flat tire on my car and dead battery on the truck. Fu... Tire iron sold to me with the car is TOO BIG! (Trucks one is too) FU... Call my mom for "jump, please" She had to go into work early today. FUC... But, "I'll send your sister with some cables." "OK."
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2 Week Anniversary!
"Smellatizing" is a great description! Congratulations Dragonsfancy!! Keep on climbing; we're all here to cheer you on! And, remember your reward!
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Whaaaaa? Breaking up? Is this because of Megadong??
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@MLMR is confused; have a seat...you must have a lot on your mind I found you the perfect stress ball(s) Google; "Inappropriate kids toys" is a fun one, (but DO NOT google "hot guy with big stick") ?
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Need Doreen's frying pan wackadoodle but not for smoky thoughts.
I LOVE IT!! Linda Thomas, tell me in the last...? 10 years think you would say this?? Now that they are safe at the casino; buy a space heater (to heat up your husbands booty) and have some fun! How long has it been since you played strip poker? Nice glass of wine on a chilly RV night? I'm sure husband is ready for a reward too! (I'm only kidding a little) but just make sure to take care of YOU too. I'm glad you're here, too?
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Well, BLOW ME DOWN!! I love cockies!! Something to wash them down??
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Decision Made
Hello @DragonsFancy!! I wanted to check in on you and see how you are feeling. 2 weeks tomorrow, huh?! Are you kitten me? That's meowsome!!
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@MLMR I hope you feel better!
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Setback
Welcome @Mel!! Yes, please, circle Monday with a big red circle and get excited!! Make a quit list of all the reasons you want to quit, and put yourself at the top! You. You are the most important part of the quit. Your mindset and commitment will determine how easy/hard it will be. Get your snacks, and distractions, start reading all about nicotine addiction and the changes its made to your mind and body. Education is a very important part. A blind quit is like building a house from the roof down...it won't have a leg to stand on, but an educated quit will stand on a firm foundation. Hope to hear from you on Monday Mel!!
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Can't stand it
I am glad and proud and happy I don't have to fly to Holland to kick you carrot butt!! You are still young in your quit; these thoughts happen. One old nicotine receptor dying, creating memories that perk up another receptor (that begins anticipating nicotine) and like one baby crying; they all start because junkie thinking has you in a weak moment. But, here's the beauty, you know the lies, the tricks and stolen moments so you have the defenses to fight back! Your quit will be strong and beautiful being forged in the fires of real life...
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Can't stand it
You know you really don't want to smoke!! Have you went thru HALT? Run thru the house screaming if you need to, MLMR, my friend, but please don't smoke! I know you are stronger than this!
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I love this thread?
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What are you doing right now
Getting cold here too! Snow on Sunday! Be safe, Linda Thomas, on the road and with your quit! We're here if you need us. Love on your husband and enjoy your time together.
- Christa326 is 2 months Smoke Free!!
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October Roll Call ...
Still climbing! A quit doesn't stop at the lido deck. I want to be close to the newbies incase they need extra cheers!!
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The Significance of Rewards
Hip hooray! I love rewards! Daily/small task rewards=chocolates, hard candies, nice tea/coffee/beer Monthly/anniversaries=nice dinner, haircut +style, new socks/undies, Doesn't have to be something big every time, but always tell yourself "This is my reward for xxx" to really reinforce the good behavior association with the dopamine release. Try new things! The new you might like new things!! (It was mentioned above but I'll also throw out that sex is the best release of dopamine, oxytocin, and endorphins. And, like I said, try new things?)
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That's why jillars always peeking over my fence!!
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@Doreensfree, Doreensfree- how does your garden grow? "With cockel trees as far as the eye can see," "And my pants down to my toes!" ???
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3 weeks smoke free!
Keep it up Kdad! Quitting gave me the motivation to change other areas of my life too. It's a good feeling to know that you are worth it! Thanks for checking in?
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Firm, please ?
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Checking in
It is! But, mostly just from bloating due to diet changes, underlying stomach conditions being aggrivated by high fat diet, stress ( nudge-nudge) Keep blaming the dog or the husbands if you're in public?
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Checking in
A good quit just feels sooo goooood!! Glad you are doing well Christa!
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Update
Past 72 hours now!! How are you feeling? Take it easy as your mind and body are still healing...and remember your rewards!!
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Day 1 Begins
Take it easy, your mind will be a mile a minute with every thought imaginable. Just tell junkie thoughts NOPE and find something else to do.
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I was about to go to the site and look!! I might get one too now