Everything posted by leahcaR
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My quit date is 04/09/2014
yay congrats
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What happens when you ignore a massive crave?
so agree with this. I do not believe in avoiding triggers. they will only come appear at a time when you do not expect it later when you think you are strong and you will realize how hard it is facing that trigger for the first time no matter how far into your quit you are. the more times exposed to a trigger the less of a trigger it is the next time. fact.
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My quit date is 04/09/2014
hey hey its the day!! :)
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Another oldie here to help ya, if you don't mind old hippies :P
welcome fellow WoW player :)
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I just wanted to give special thanks to some people
http://www.quittrain.com/index.php/topic/357-anyone-ever-use-affirmations/
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I just wanted to give special thanks to some people
That quit is in the past being mad and stressing yourself out still about it won't help you with your current quit. It will only make you more mad. Dwelling on negatives is never a good thing and it's a sure way to sabotage yourself. Think of the positives. You learned a lesson. You're back on a fresh new beautiful quit and you have ALL the power to make it successful. That is awesome. Go you!!
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I just wanted to give special thanks to some people
I think you may need to visit the affirmation post my friend
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I just wanted to give special thanks to some people
You have to believe in yourself. Don't already be thinking of relapse. We all need to believe in ourselves. If we don't then it doesn't matter how many other people believe in us...it only has to do with you. :) “Whether you think you can, or you think you can't--you're right.” ― Henry Ford
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Non Smoking Cats
Yay cat thread pinned.
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And the off-white
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Epic battle between
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Anyone ever use affirmations?
Yay that is exactly my point :). If you think you can't handle the craves and aren't strong enough to get through withdrawals you're right. You're going to keep self-talking to yourself negatively and telling yourself how hard it is and how uncomfortable and unbearable and how weak you are that before you even get an hour in you already believe all of this as fact which brings on double the anxiety and problems. I think this is largely why this first (and only) quit attempt has worked for me. I am a firm believer that I can do anything. At first when I was contemplating quitting I thought it was impossible and going to be too hard. But then I realized I was giving this tiny little tobacco/crap filled stick waaaaay too much power in how think about myself. I'm way stronger than small tube that disintegrates when lit. And I decided I could do it and that I knew it wouldn't kill me no matter the cravings or feelings or uncomfortableness. I think how you go into a situation and how you talk to yourself makes the difference in any situation. I honestly have always thought that we really are our own biggest bullies. Just think about what you say to yourself during a typical day--your inner dialogue--and I guarantee if it were someone else saying even a fraction of those things to you out loud you'd punch them in face not even an hour into the day. :) be nice to yourselves people.
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rowlyd
I can think of less than appropriate things it could stand for :p
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That they didn't
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Today's Reminder
- Life's too short now isn't it !!!!!
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- Life's too short now isn't it !!!!!