May 2, 201511 yr Quit Smoking Discussions "A place for all discussions relating to quitting smoking and staying quit. The sky is the limit so jump in and enjoy the fresh air!" Hi, Everyone! I wasn't sure which forum, to post this in. I read the above and figured it fits, here. I recently made the decision to not involve myself here anymore. (truly, for a *number* of reasons). I have talked with people, about my reasons and within those discussions, made the comments that I had no intention of writing a "Swan Song" and leaving. But, I have wrestled with finding a way to tell everyone, who might be wondering, what has become of me. I can only think of doing this, to let you know, "what's up". I am not leaving the forum nor, have I been asked to. No sanctions have been placed on my postings, here. I am leaving my registration "open", to use as I choose and ... (may need for continued smobriety). I am trying to do, what Trace mentioned once, which is, (paraphrase), close some doors of unhappiness and move on ... with strength to strength. That's, "what's up". Nothing more. Those "doors" have to do with real life stuff, that needs my attention, and very little to do with cyberspace. Who knows, (I don't), I may even want to post here again sometime for, altruistic reasons. I will leave that open too! I just can't do this right now. I need to invest more effort and time with ... what Trace said. I offer my best wishes, to you all. m/
May 2, 201511 yr Hi Mike you need to do what is right for you in your life at this precise moment in time, what is best for you, not for anyone else, I for one am here to support you as much or as little as you may need, sometimes we need to reach out and feel the physical or mental force of human life, and sometimes we just want to pull the duvet over our heads and shut the world out, I judge no-one we are all here for a reason. Quitting, I do worry when I havent seen a fellow member for sometime and can only hope they are doing well, still quit and just not needing this little corner of the internet. Stay strong Mike post when and if you need, but above all please keep your quit. Hugs xx
May 2, 201511 yr Big hugs my friend. I'm glad you will be lurking. Take care of yourself and your quit and know that we are always here, anytime. Just a pm away.
May 2, 201511 yr Thanks for checking in Mike, I had hoped you would post. Sometimes I wonder about people who disappear without a word. I wonder if they're in the bag, or if they met with some event. I think you'll survive to post again, I'm sure we haven't read the last from you.
May 2, 201511 yr Sorry you feel that this group thing isn't for you. Sometimes it is easier to "wing it" but sometimes people leave cause they aren't ready to give up their smokes. My wish is that you find what you need & just stay cig free. :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
May 3, 201511 yr Mike I wish you all the best to do whatever it is you need to do, please guard that quit we are here for you if you need us Take care Mike xx
May 3, 201511 yr Keep the quit Stop Sign guy. Do whatever you need to hold on to your quit. Your health and certainly your life depends on it. COPD ain't no joke.
May 3, 201511 yr Author -Snippets- Quitting, I do worry when I havent seen a fellow member for sometime and can only hope they are doing well, still quit and just not needing this little corner of the internet. Please don't worry Jackie. It doesn't help you or I. I will post an SOS first, if another event happens, that seriously jeopardizes my quit. Thanks, everyone.
May 3, 201511 yr mike buddy.....gonna miss ya here.... Hope you find that happiness ..and peace you so deserve... I will keep your seat on the lido deck.....just in case you pass by..... Stay strong in your quit.... Hugs Doreen xx
May 3, 201511 yr Hey Mike - do what you need to do ... And remember we are all here if / when you need it ! Stay strong !
May 3, 201511 yr Best wishes to you Mike! You have to do what is best for you & most of all live life! Wishing you smobriety & happiness. xx
May 3, 201511 yr Window licker. I will say you need to post here for a year Everyone does. Not just for you but to pay forward. So I hope this comes across like a smack in the puss. Only takes a minute to check in and say hi. Besides without Canucks the British will think it's ok to talk their nonsense more
May 4, 201511 yr Yeah, don't just leave. Stick with this until you're SECURE and solid. You'll need it. And others will need you.
May 4, 201511 yr Hey Mike. Keep the quit. That's all that matters. Will be great to hear from you when you get a minute - I daresay Ill still be here one way or another. Be good!
May 5, 201511 yr Keep the Quit, Chief. You've been with us for the long run. You know where we are. :)
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