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I activated the signatures (not sure why I had them off) so once the ticker program is completed, the tickers can be added.
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This is getting a bit tedious and frankly, takes away from what we're doing here at QuitTrain®. Joel doesn't fail to mention in his videos that he never smoked. In fact, he addresses this right up front. Should he mention it in every single video? lol Again, tedious and unnecessary. http://whyquit.com/joels-videos/you-never-smoked-how-can-you-know-what-i-am-going-through/ There is no hidden agenda. There is no money being made. When folks dedicate themselves to helping people quit smoking and save their lives, why does it have to met with malcontent? We have all had different experiences with quitting and not a single method is THE BEST for everybody but there are some that prove to be much more effective for most people, as the data on this site and many studies show. I tried to quit by gradual withdrawal using some app and it was tortuous and I was able to cheat and in the end, it didn't work for me. If it worked for you, that's great! Nobody is going to disparage you, not here, it's not allowed, but others have the right to point out methods which prove to have overall better success rates, especially when offering a new quitter advice. I own this site, don't take donations and don't make a cent from it. I invest in it. I personally invest in your addiction and everybody else who wants to quit. This is my stance (as previously posted) on the issue and I'd like all to put it to rest once and for all as it's old news, wasted energy and takes the focus off of the addiction and onto superfluous tit-for-tat. "The notion that Joel's materials are insignificant or somehow illegitimate because he never smoked is preposterous. The psychiatrist who successfully treats patients doesn't have the prerequisite to have had the same disorder in in which he/she is treating in order to see results. He or she only has to have empathy, experience, knowledge and most importantly, the data which shows efficacy of treatments. Through the many clinics that Joel ran through the American Cancer Society and on his own, he gained a vast and invaluable collection of data which came directly from smokers over the course of decades. He, like the Dr. helping a person cope with the devastation caused by a divorce, losing a job, a spouse or a child does not have to have experienced the same to help the patient. You know who spoke truth to me about my drug addiction to nicotine? My Dr.! He never smoked a day in his life yet he knew about this addiction and what it would take for me to quit."
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Saturday 17 th February 2018
MarylandQuitter replied to Doreensfree's topic in The Daily NOPE Pledge
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Just joined and just quit last night.
MarylandQuitter replied to Bonnie Diorio's topic in Introductions & About Us
Bonnie, you still around? We're here to help in any way we can. -
They say that hindsight is always 20/20, it's true. If I could go back to my youth of 21 years old, I would never, ever take a drag off of another cigarette or anything else that contained nicotine. However, at age 21, I had already been smoking off/on for 10 years. My advice to you is stop putting nicotine into your body right now. Not tomorrow, not in 15 minutes but this very moment and never, ever administer this drug again. When you reach my age, you'll look back and be thankful that you found this site and listened to those who traveled the same path before you.
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You absolutely can do this! It sounds cliche, but if I can do it, anybody can. What exactly is it that is giving you a hard time this week?
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Welcome aboard, Ron! Isn't it amazing how good it feels to once quit and then realize how crappy we felt all of those years? Congrats on the quit!! Hope to hear more from you.
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Joel ASKED me if he could join up and cautioned me that his presence could cause some discord. He then asked me how much I wanted him to post to which I told him he could post as often as he would like to. After all, when you Google how to quit smoking (or related searches) Joel's materials are always at the top of search results so why not allow (not that he ever needed my permission) him to post here? It would be insane not to, as his materials have helped masses of people from all over the world quit smoking. The notion that his materials are insignificant or somehow illegitimate because he never smoked is preposterous. The psychiatrist who successfully treats patients doesn't have the prerequisite to have had the same disorder in in which he/she is treating in order to see results. He or she only has to have empathy, experience, knowledge and most importantly, the data which shows efficacy of treatments. Through the many clinics that Joel ran through the American Cancer Society and on his own, he gained a vast and invaluable collection of data which came directly from smokers over the course of decades. He, like the Dr. helping a person cope with the devastation caused by a divorce, losing a job, a spouse or a child does not have to have experienced the same to help the patient. You know who spoke truth to me about my drug addiction to nicotine? My Dr. He never smoked a day in his life yet he knew about this addiction and what it would take for me to quit. He steered me to a place to get help which led me to Joel's materials. Lastly, those who mentioned that his posts were spam ought to be ashamed of yourselves. Spam is profit driven or driven for some other nefarious purpose. Joel has never made a dime from any of his materials. His time spent here behind the scenes before he ever joined was free. He has a desire to help people quit smoking and stay quit. He's never asked for anything and to assume that he posts to drive people to YouTube or elsewhere is bananas. Do you not realize that ALL of Joel's videos were posted on this site long before he ever joined?? If click bait were the case, he would have never allowed me to do this. He encourages anybody to use his materials with the goal of helping people save their lives. Talking about inflicting bodily harm to Joel because of efforts is very telling of where some people are at. Should it get asked, QT is funded solely by me; always has and always will be. Nothing on this site came to me as free as I have to retain programmers, designers, pay for licensing of the software etc. Moreoever, QuitTrain is a Registered Trademark which was also not free, but imperative to the longevity of something that myself and few others created (the Moderators) and what was created is protected. I allow no advertisements and don't take donations etc., even though I've been asked to. Hell, I don't even allow Facebook logins because in case you didn't know, when sites allow this, they gain access to your friend list and can send adverts etc. to which I want NO PART OF. I share the same desire as Joel and my moderators to freely give time and money to help ANYBODY quit smoking and stay quit. To this, you do not have the right to make false accusations regarding the motives of those who take their time and money to help complete strangers save their lives by quitting this deadly addiction. Joel will not be posting here and that is his choice. However, he will still be in daily or weekly contact with me as he has for several years now. He has lots to offer and ways to help and I am always grateful for this. QuitTrain® allows free and open membership to anybody who has a desire to quit smoking or help others quit so long as our guidelines are followed.
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Yes, the tickers will be back. They are being worked on but the entire code is being re-written to work properly with the upgrade. Thanks for being so patient!
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Yes, the tickers will be back. They are being worked on but the entire code is being re-written to work properly with the upgrade. Thanks for being so patient!
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Right now you're obsessing over smoking. Turn your thoughts to something else. You can't control what thoughts pop into your head but what you can do in control how you act on them and right now, you're playing right into the junkie frame of mind. You're setting yourself up for a relapse. Get out and walk/run; do something to occupy your mind until you learn to control these thoughts. What you need to believe is that you're not missing out on anything by not smoking. You're truly not and should you smoke, you'd feel like crap both physically and mentally. Dig through this because it's only temporary and by the way, kudos for writing about it here. It helps. It truly does. There is nothing that can force you to smoke; only you can willingly make that choice.
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My Life Long Smoking Friend......
MarylandQuitter replied to Doreensfree's topic in Quit Smoking Discussions
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Hi Edie and welcome to QT!! At this stage of the game, the only quit aid you'll need is knowledge about this drug addiction that you cannot beat an addiction by using the same drug that you're trying to quit. Eventually, you'll have to quit the quit aid and then what? You're going to go through cravings ALL OVER AGAIN. Why torture yourself that way? You've already quit so the only way to stay quit is to not administer this drug back into your body.
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I WANT TO QUIT AND KNOW I CAN!
MarylandQuitter replied to Tyme2B's topic in Quit Smoking Discussions
Glad to see that a slip didn't send you back to using nicotine again. However, there are no practice quits. This is your life and it's imperative that you keep your quit separate from all other things in your life and protect it as if your life depends on it, because it does. There is no hope, try etc., there is only a commitment that you make to yourself that you never, ever stick a cigarette between your lips, set it on fire and start puffing on it. Every day protect your quit. You can do this just like millions before you have. Trust me and trust us when we say that you can stay quit forever. -
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Greetings from Joel Spitzer
MarylandQuitter replied to Joel Spitzer's topic in Joel Spitzer's Quit Smoking Video Library
Hi Joel! Thanks for registering and for all of your help over the past years. That video index is an amazing tool!! -
Our DD..has her 4 years Quit Today !!!
MarylandQuitter replied to Doreensfree's topic in Celebrations!
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Nope, Nope, Nope!!!