June 22, 201412 yr Author Very hot it took 're weather from afica I sat in the shade most of the time as I burn easy
June 22, 201412 yr We all care for each other Tracey. I hate the addiction to nicotine and smoking even more.
June 22, 201412 yr You will never stop completely, it just won't be such a problem. The important thing is that you asked for help, it's always there for you.
June 22, 201412 yr Author Thank you so much Paul I am going to sleep now and put this under another lesson learned xxxxxx
June 22, 201412 yr Tracey, Sorry to hear you hit a speed bump...Glad you are still on the train :) We all face a rough patch here and there, I think they make our quit stronger in the long run. How are you doing now?
June 22, 201412 yr Hey Tracey - just saw this - so glad Paul was there for you and that you were strong - hope you are feeling better now !
June 22, 201412 yr Aww Tracey, horrid when they come on like that. Pleased Paul was here to talk you down. Pm me if you want to talk once you've woken up and I will try to check my inbox today. xx
June 22, 201412 yr Tracey and Paul! Fantastic work out of both of you. Another trigger faced and defeated. Well done both!
June 22, 201412 yr Tracey....wow......sorry I wasn't here,I was asleep.... Kind of gave me a scare there.....give up a 7 month quit.....I would have had to come down there,slap you....slap you I say.... So pleased our good guy Paul,was here to talk you through ..... You both done a fabulous job.......well done to the two of you...... Upwards on onwards Tracey....... Oh ya.....and a big sqeezy hug from me......
June 22, 201412 yr Author Anger is my last emotion attached to smoking, it has got better as in it takes a lot to get to crisis point, drinking does not help in fact it makes it worse but I am not giving that up lol I WILL NOT SMOKE and will do anything to fight it, I get frustrated with myself that I still have this last hurdle I WILL BEAT it it's just taking longer than I would like but encouraging it is getting better It's me that is changing and I know one day this will be behind me I am grateful to the board and its members for going through this journey My life has nothing to do with smoking anymore each day I learn this more and more A special thanks and hug goes to Paul for listening to me rant and bringing me back down to earth xxx Now to get busy with the easy peasy!!
June 22, 201412 yr So glad you beat it and so glad this board was here doing what is it supposed to do!
June 22, 201412 yr Aww babe ... Major hugs. - oh and Paul can you just tell your wife ,,,,just for a moment she's sharing ... Doreen you got him first ,,,, then Tracey .... Then me ! Seriously Hun - hoe you are ok !
June 22, 201412 yr Glad you're doing so much better, Tracey. Things always look different after 12 hrs or so have passed. When we're angry, sad or in a crisis situation, we can be our own worst enemy because all we have is our current mindset to bounce our feelings and thoughts off of and when we're emotional, we're not capable of making sound decisions. It's so important to reach out and share feelings when you're pissed off, sad or beyond pissed off and are seeing red. It may be the last thing we think we need to do, but often times the right thing to do is the hardest or most uncomfortable. You used Paul as your sounding board and what he did is something that we're incapable of doing by ourselves when we're in the middle of a crisis. Your outlook changed dramatically in a very short amount of time. I hope the lurkers see this thread and pay attention because of the many benefits of a quit smoking support group, the 24/7 support that is available online is beyond price. Get involved and get to know other members because that way, when you need a little help, you know the source and it can make the difference of lighting up or not. Great job, Tracey. Paul, you quite possibly saved a quit and even if Tracey would have held her own, you quieted her mind and spoke reason to her. Again, beyond price. :)
June 22, 201412 yr Author All true MQ and today boy am I glad I had the board last night just knowing you are not alone in this no matter where you are is truly a life line and I will be eternally grateful We just have to keep pushing I have come further then I ever thought possible, education and support has been the key that's why I joined the site, actually that's why I went looking for one! Reaching out can be hard and scary but if you are serious about quitting then fear or pride must not stand in your way Join the board, gain the support and Knowledge you need use it when you need to and give yourself the best chance possible until you no longer need it x
June 22, 201412 yr Tracey so glad to see your still here and doing better, PAUL you are an absolute star for helping tracey, the support of the Quit Train is so valuable and was proved yet again, we all have to realise that there is no shame in admitting we are facing a crave, it happens, we sometimes need help and its really fantastic to know that we can reach out and there will always be helping hands and voices around. Well done Tracey you came through so proud and once again PAUL amazing xx
June 22, 201412 yr Tracey, so glad you made it through! Good for you! And a big hug and kiss for Paul!
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