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RWW I would have made that mistake in the past too. I know it's all very 'wise after the event' but the frustrating thing for me is I was confusing a thought, with a crave. All seemed the same at the time but I can look back now and see the difference so crystal clear. That in itself has set me free mentally, thankfully. I used to think because I got a 'thought' it meant I would always feel this way, be a smoker...so the vicious cycle would begin again.

Thanks Andrew... ;) No doubt I'll be out of my seat...dancing...gotta show these youngsters how it's done after all.... ;)

It will be priceless...no doubt. Knowing me I'll have a 'tear at a wedding moment' with the sheer joy of it all. They are so excited, it wonderful. I remember my first concert, Meatloaf (with my dad and Uncle) I felt numb with shock when his opening number 'Bat Outta Hell' came on. Could just not believe the man I listed to most nights, on my tape cassette, was stood there, belting it out in front of my very eyes. It really is the little moments like that, when you look back, really do make you smile isn't it? That lovely warm glow you get in your belly.

I did, I did!....which makes me proud as I often don't always get the punchline ;)

Just answered the door and signed for four tickets that are going to make the Siifs very excited. The One Direction concert tickets have come...oh my life...can't wait! We have never been to a concert as a family before, we have been to pantomimes, local theater production...even ventured to the O2 years ago to watch Disney's High School Musical on ice...but this, this is HUGE. My girls are so in love with 1D and they are being supported by their other favourite band, 5 Seconds Of Summer. I don't mind their music, easy to listen to, doesn't offend my ears. The exciting part, for me, is to see the expressions on their faces when the boys come on stage, it will be electric and so very exciting. A Sifford memory for ever and ever. Wow....just wow...it's really happening-June. Plus I will feel young again no doubt, and get caught up in the excitement. I hope they play this track as going is part of the story of our, the Siffs, life.

Aine....you sound like you've turned a corner you know. Good to read. Hope you findvthe books you fancy and lose yourself in them. :)

Lace it's Tuesday ....how's it going...lol...;)

Today's benefit for me..... As I no longer spend £64 a week, on the muck, I suprised and treated my daughters to £20 each to take on their shopping trip with their pals. Felt so good to know that money will go towards fun instead of death. They will have a ball!

Congratulations Dors...:)

Good to read ya Marti.... She's got you....and you've got us....all bases covered. By bedtime tonight she will have another day under her belt, hopefully she can think another day, and I was fine, nothing terrible actually happened to me. Florida!....oh my life my favourite subject....start a thread in social if you fancy, would love a chit chat about there. Hope the photographs went well, I had chaos doing mine, took 20 minutes, could NOT stop laughing...ended up with a real belly ache due to the hysteria. Hope yours went well ;)

You sound just like I used to feel Tiffany....I haven't got the magic formula....or the magic words (if only) but I do know this Tiffany you really are more than capable of doing this. What motivated me (to overcome my emotional tie) was to dig deep and trust the millions of other who had stopped smoking and were living very happy, carefree lives. They were everywhere. Like you say you deserve to be smoke free Tiffany. Hold your head high, no need to be embarrassed, I mean so what if you have many failed quits behind you....who cares!...who the hell is anyone to judge, no one here would....I'd bet money on that! Tiffany why don't you start a blog? It really might help to release your days feelings from your head? I've quit already but would gladly be your quit buddy if you want one, if that would help? Up to you and I am in no way offended if you decline....you do what you gotta do. I can imagine Julie being a good buddy for you also, as you mentioned her so you seem to relate to her. I saw your Nope pledge today Tiffany, today is the first day of the rest of your smoke free life...excellent start ;)

Enjoy your pre special day celebrations.....and enjoy tomorrow's too. :)

Yawn....Nope from a very sunny Essex...still yawn... Go Soozie and Tiff...you've both got this.

Hello Chip and welcome :)

Hello and a very warm welcome you you. :)

Me too!....rofl.... :unsure

I really have felt for you guys across the pond, you seem to have had the Worlds Winter quota of snow dumped on you! Thank heavens it's melting, at long last.

Yes....come on in, make yourself welcome....you'll be glad you did ;)

Hello and a very warm welcome to you Becca :)

Work your magic on her Marti....it all helps.

Oh my life Lace....when I read snake I went cold...what a carry on...lol...phew and it's on Monday ;) Let's hope Tuesday's as much fun.....he he he

She sure does....even if she does take a barrrth instead of a bath...she's smashing ;)

I would have bet my last pound that you were strong Marti...comes across in your posts.

^^^^Great tip.... iamdoingit....you know when you said that last time you rewarded yourself with a smoke? Isn't it fabulous though that this time you see that old thought for what it is, a lie. That in itself is a fabulous mindset to start off with....you'll have a sticky quit this time....I can feel it in my bones. Am looking forward to you posting and sharing your achievement with us. I'm a huge Disney fan....just love a happy ending :)

The vibe of a place makes all the difference to me, I can sense an atmosphere from miles away...sets my stomach on edge. To me this place feels like going to your grandparents....always welcome, warm and will give guidance as and when needed and as much support as you need. I love it here...so reminds me of how I felt sleeping over at my nannies. Safe and supported...heck, I even showed my face on my avatar here...lol