....enjoy and take it slow.  As long as you don't sleep with him before you find out more...what difference does it make???

 

huh?

 

It makes all the difference in the world!

huh?

 

It makes all the difference in the world!

Huh? Not sure what you mean

Anyhoo, I have no intention of sleeping with anyone for a while!

 

Got another date on Wednesday night

Anyhoo, I have no intention of sleeping with anyone for a while!

 

Got another date on Wednesday night

 

When you have no intention...that is usually when it happens.  Atleast that is the way it always happens to me.

 

Do what you want... bang away... you are still young...use it if you got it.

Well unless we get drunk and go dancing I don't think anything will happen! He's way too safe! He needs to loosen up and be cheeky!

Has to be better than the guy who tried to impress you with his homemade vaping maching (and the borrowed car). :)

Well unless we get drunk and go dancing I don't think anything will happen! He's way too safe! He needs to loosen up and be cheeky!

Sounds like the best strategy here would be for you to get him drunk while you stay sober. That way he might muster up some courage but you can keep a healthy perspective. 

 

And Crispy, I'm surprised that you have not yet learned that for most women, sex and emotional involvement are inextricably linked. Wham-bam-thank-you-sir is just not in the cards for most of us. That's why it's wiser for women to go slowly. 

And Crispy, I'm surprised that you have not yet learned that for most women, sex and emotional involvement are inextricably linked. Wham-bam-thank-you-sir is just not in the cards for most of us. That's why it's wiser for women to go slowly. 

 

Not true... I did learn that that was true for some... some.  But not all. 

 

To each their own.

I like the easy chicks,,,,,i like the hard ones too,,,,,,mean or nice, curves make them better....

 

I am just a big lesbian like sonic

Last date he wore shirt and trousers (like at work) this time he's got jeans, skater shoes, T-shirt and done something with his hair. Hot! I'm impressed! #grin

Last date he wore shirt and trousers (like at work) this time he's got jeans, skater shoes, T-shirt and done something with his hair. Hot! I'm impressed! #grin

 

Keep that penny between your knees it's only the second date ;)

 

Bless him he is making an effort for you, sounds a good man, I hope things work out for you x

Home, alone!

 

And he's coming alive a bit! Our third date is going to be a rock climbing wall apparently!

Home, alone!

 

And he's coming alive a bit! Our third date is going to be a rock climbing wall apparently!

love it....let us know how it went!  Pictures too!

Well that was kinda fun, went for a meal, couple of drinks, all good.

 

He was with his ex for 5 years, the kids are 6 and 8 years old so he's very much their dad they split because she had an affair, she's single again but he says he's not interested.

 

I don't know. He's nice, a bit quiet, and I can see him going back to his ex.

 

The flip side is I don't think I've ever had so many compliments in an evening.

 

Argh! Men!

 

I am such a lousy chooser when it comes to men that I wrote down on paper 10 things I was looking for. Humor, likes to read, intelligent, etc.

 

Then, I started seeing if the men I had the most physical attraction to matched up to the list.

 

Curious thing is that I had a tendency to be attracted to emotionally absent/abusive and humorless and not so intelligent men who didn't read. So, It was a good thing I had the list to check off some of them!

 

Note: my husband, 13 years now, fit 7 out of the 10 criteria. At the end of the day, give me "determined" and "kind" over model gorgeous and charismatic.

Comrade is your hub, right?  Tarzan?  "Tarzan" fits the model/gorgeous and charismatic category, so you're all covered, Aine.  :) and you got bonus criteria :)

 

Wish I would have thought of making a list, but sheesh, that was over 15 years ago.  lol  My H probably meets 7 out of 10, but my list has probably changed over 15+ years. :)

Sarah enjoy dating and like someone said keep the penny between your knees for now :D

Well 3rd date has disappeared without a trace, no idea what went wrong there

HA!!!  On a different note... I went to your profile to get a "better" look at your picture...cause let's face it... I am a dude.  You have had all guys visiting your profile and then Babs...if that is not hot..I don't know what is.

 

As far as the dating thing.... so be it.  Things happen for a reason.  I know that is hard to "swallow" now... but I truly believe it happens for everyone... most of the time when you are not looking or expecting.

 

And if that is your real picture... you should not have problems.

Now I have to go look :)

Its not me! Its Amanda Seyfried.

 

I am blonde though!

Trickery.

Trickery in that I too am a blonde female like you are a blonde canine?

Anyway, I've had my real face up plenty of times, and my arse for that matter!

Yikes... you are right... my apologies.

I can see the dog humping the couch soon.