Why do people feel they need to carp at you for joining this site?? Like who's business is it?? It's like some feel I was a dumb bi tch for NOT CRAWLING back to the q site where they mods told me i would never be invited back. I'm going to give it they wkend to decide if I want to belong to any quit site besides the British one, I don't need this crap.

Why do people feel they need to carp at you for joining this site?? Like who's business is it?? It's like some feel I was a dumb bi tch for NOT CRAWLING back to the q site where they mods told me i would never be invited back. I'm going to give it they wkend to decide if I want to belong to any quit site besides the British one, I don't need this crap.

 

Anybody who treats you this way is not worthy of having you.

 

As I have publicly stated many times, I don't care who posts where.  As long as we keep our place here friendly and helpful, I couldn't care less if somebody posts 1000 times per day at any other forum and only posts here once per week.

 

I will never get caught up the type of nonsense that others are doing to you.  I would expect this type of behavior from my 5, 8 and 10 yr old kids but they don't even act this way.  :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

Thanks, it just gets old.

Why do people feel they need to carp at you for joining this site??

The Sarge says: F*ck 'em.

 

You've already spent more time than they're worth on this post alone.

 

 

 

 

 

Easy Peasy

Real friends won't question your decisions, they will accept it because they love you. They might not like it and they might not understand some of your decisions...but they will always be on your side no matter what!

 

Bully's on the other hand will try to tell you what to do! Don't allow ANYBODY to bully you!

Awe - mis green - already said not gonna post drunk - fail !! Love you snarky pants

Hello, Greenlover! Good to see you made it over here.... :)

I can see why they are 'on at you' we belong in troops/groups and you joining here has unsettled their troop....que attack. At least it's not in the jungle ;) there you get attacked even death ;)

 

Walk away or face them and say that you are free to group wherever you feel you want to, reassure them it has no bearing on your friendship with them. Obviously, things might be said-truths out in the open- but if you do value their friendship it's got to be worth sorting. I imagine they feel you are being disloyal to them? I don't, I'm not judging were you go or what you do(makes no difference to me), but can imagine their feelings are hurt...so que attack/carping on, sadly.

Thanks, I just need a thicker skin sometimes, but yeah some see this as a stab in the back. I'm done trying to keep everyone happy. I need to be selfish and either they will come around or not.

Thanks, I just need a thicker skin sometimes, but yeah some see this as a stab in the back. I'm done trying to keep everyone happy. I need to be selfish and either they will come around or not.

Exactly Beth, you have every right to do 'what suits' you and if being here suits you then that's their tough luck quite frankly...it really is.

 

Rise above it, see it for what it is-unsettlement in their troop- just nature, nothing you can do about nature.

 

I can understand it upset you though, it would most people who are in touch with their feelings.

 

Glad you feel better ;)

Why do people feel they need to carp at you for joining this site?? Like who's business is it?? It's like some feel I was a dumb bi tch for NOT CRAWLING back to the q site where they mods told me i would never be invited back. I'm going to give it they wkend to decide if I want to belong to any quit site besides the British one, I don't need this crap.

Hey Beth. You need no advice from me.

 

Post where you like.

 

I got a bit disheartened when people started telling me where I could and couldn't post. Just annoys me. My time is important to me, and I would rather not be using it getting annoyed!

Thanks, I just need a thicker skin sometimes, but yeah some see this as a stab in the back. I'm done trying to keep everyone happy. I need to be selfish and either they will come around or not.

if they are true friends they will - they will not let pride get in the way of friendship for any reason - beth you have to do what feels right for you and no other - but know this if you stick around you will make new friends xxx

Hey Beth, I know how you feel lol.

 

I'm glad you are here. I think you should be free to make your own decisions without having to worry what your 'friends' think of you.

 

It would be a massive loss if you weren't here.

Hope you're ok Beth, if it makes you feel any better, I am getting the same hassle and keep getting told lots of reasons why I should x

Do whatever you want and nobody else, whatever makes you happy and screw everyone else x

And again I need you with your Ireland tshirt, you make me feel at home and like I have someone from my neck of the woods here with me so you can't leave me, molly malone would not be happy lol x

Beth, you are as real as a person gets... and I'm so glad you're here, my sister friend!

 

Post whatever makes you happy...I'll never judge you.

Seems like a lot of people love you........ :D

beth im glad your here  please dont leave   you have always been nice to me from day 1    like tiffany said  a lot of people love you i know i do anyway  :D  :wub:  :wub: 

Thats why I came here. :rolleyes: 

Thats why I came here. :rolleyes: 

There you are!  I wondered where you'd gone off to.  :)