I'm beyond pissed.  My husband opened my mail...again!  He does it all the time.  I have nothing to hide but I do feel that it's very disrespectful.  Especially because I have asked him time and time again not to open my mail.  I dont' open his mail. 

Then when I complain he disregards my feelings and says he opened it by mistake and didn't have his glasses.  bullshit

 

control freak

 

ugggghhhhh

 

end of rant

If you have asked him not to open your mail on multiple occasions, he should go get his damn glasses before he opens anything.  What a big lie!

That's what happens when you go to the gym every day at 5am and get all hot and sexy!  

That's what happens when you go to the gym every day at 5am and get all hot and sexy!  

Good point...

That would get my goat too, if I'm honest. When you're married, or a mother, there are very few things that identify you as being just you. Even if it's a ruddy bill, it's addressed to you so then should be only opened by you really shouldn't it?

Thanks ladies. Just really ticked me off. Usually I don't let him get to me but today I was weak. Lol.

 

Bastard.

He should have gone to ....spec savers....

Very calmly, give him a choice.

 

1. He stops opening your mail.

2. You will get a PO Box at his expense.

Very calmly, give him a choice.

 

1. He stops opening your mail.

2. You will get a PO Box at his expense.

. That's exactly what I told him too

 

He never opens up my bills. What came in the mail was a letter from violations bereau for a toll I went thru and my EZ pass was not working and looked like I ran thru it. He was just being nosey.

 

I'm still ticked off this morning. lol

Babs could you not send yourself a letter?

 

You could write stop being so bloody nosey, don't open my mail again, no excuses. Be funny to see his face, when he opens it

Babs could you not send yourself a letter?

 

You could write stop being so bloody nosey, don't open my mail again, no excuses. Be funny to see his face, when he opens it

This would be me... I would get people to address envelopes so the handwriting was different, about 20 maybe. And send them one at a time with a note in telling him to sod off...but you're probably a grown up :)

 

Jokes aside, that is pretty controlling and damn rude. 

Send a vibrator/strap on to yourself. Watch his face then.

Send a vibrator/strap on to yourself. Watch his face then.

Oh my goodness...missed laughing with you guys...so funny.

Send a vibrator/strap on to yourself. Watch his face then.

 

I'll speak for Babs on this one and say I'm pretty sure this would not phase him.

I'll speak for Babs on this one and say I'm pretty sure this would not phase him.

 

Hahaha. You're right because I get boxes and boxes of them delivered to me every week.

 

I love the letter idea and marti....never a grown up. Lol