I've been tossing around the idea of being a pet sitter since finding out what they charge an hour ,.. but pet sitting wouldn't do anything for me in the way of get'n out of the house and meeting new people - but it's definitely something I'm going to think about.

Confucius say: "The biggest indication that a guy is feeling threatened and insecure is that he denies that he is feeling threatened and insecure." 

 

Edith Ann says, "And that's the truth!"  :P

In no way does this post make me feel threatened, or insecure. Not a bit. At all. Really.

 

No, not at all.

I don't want to be all modern woman...but hungry men are more amenable men....I would be threatening strike...

 

I hope you find a better more grown up way of talking through your issues together tho. I hear you on the being stuck in. Perhaps he was looking forward to spending time with you upon retiring...or perhaps a tad threatened...either way I hope you guys get to the bottom of it.

 

x

Why do I bother trying to do nice things for people who only continue to upset me?

 

Why?

 

What is wrong with me?

Why do I bother trying to do nice things for people who only continue to upset me?

 

Why?

 

What is wrong with me?

You have good person syndrome, incurable I'm afraid.  Hang in there Leanna, eventually they will realize all the good you've done and well, if they didn't then well they suck, don't they?  (((Leanna)))

Your vent

 

Read this earlier can't sleep until I vent this...

 

What the fecking feck, what age is he in bronze or ice? Feck me I want to come over there and give him a swift UK size 5 boot right up his jacksy

 

Lace my advise do an hour's volunteer work somewhere then you can get out and be back for the fur baby and Mr mammoth can flipping lump it!

 

You are awesome!! Good night xx

thanks Marti and Tracey, HB is 63, and set in his ways- to put it nicely, but to be fair his brother and middle sister are the same soooo maybe a family trait ...

 

however, Marti I hadn't thought he might be looking fwd to more time together (he'd NEVER  admit it).. thats something I need to consider

 

going on 'strike' wouldn't work with him he'd just say he managed just fine before he married me he can do it again (we've only been married  8 yrs)..  

 

Tracey I like the idea of volunteering a few times a week - I could afford a sitter for that - I'm gonna look into it after the new year,..

 

thanks everyone for your support and advice I really appreciate it  :wub:

 

 

 

((Leanna))  Colleen's right, you're a nice person and you can't help helping people,..

 

unfortunately not everyone is as sweet as you are - some people are just Dicks !!  :(