The beautiful thing about being successful at quitting smoking is that you suddenly realize that you can now do anything and, that you are worth doing things that will improve the quality of your life. You too are now doing this Linda. Keep moving forward  Live your life the way YOU want to. Help others but NOT at your own expense!

Edited October 20, 20187 yr by reciprocity

Glad you're home Linda and you've made it on time to be there for your friend. I'm so proud of you for standing up to your parents, big hug coming your way!

 

2 hours ago, Linda Thomas said:

Well we are home and safe.  It was a long ride home with my parents because they are not happy we won't be taking them back to the casino.  I also told my mom I was going to spend more time giving care to my friend so she can stay in her home till the end.  I do hope to have a little more time with her but realize she is 103.   My mom will just have to count on my brother to help and pay to have her groceries delivered.  

Thanks for all the words of encouragement.  I don't know what I would do without you all.  

 

I hope you have a lot more important time with your friend, Linda.

Being with those near death is very much like being a mid-wife.

You can make the ending so much better, kinder, calmer.

Be sure to nurture yourself while you nurture her...

 

I am so proud of you for the progress you have made.

Not only have you quit smoking, you have now garnered a nice batch of power

and are able to set reasonable boundaries with your parents.

Little adjustments will make a real difference in your life.

Later, you can make larger adjustments as your needs change and your power grows.

 

Hold tight to your resolve....not only your commitment to NOPE

but, your commitment to yourself to make your life a sweeter and kinder place.

 

love,

s

So Relieved for you Linda,you made it home ,to spend valuable time with your special friend....

It's so important you get to say Goodbye to your friend by her side....I have just experienced this for myself....

What a grand old lady ...I wonder what her advice would be to live a full happy life to 103.....

You said NO to your folks ...how empowering did that feel...good I'm imagining....

I agree when we Quit ...it gives us the strength in other aspects of our lives....we can do anything ....

Enjoy your time together...xx

 

Glad you're home safe and sound, friend!! 

Take some time for Linda only now!!

I read on MLMRs thread that you like crafts and such but feel like you let yourself get away from doing those kind of things...

I think now is the perfect time to start again. It will help occupy your hands and mind as these emotional times come up. Idle hands are the devil's play thing.

 

Hugs and loves for you as always!!

 

 

I found this funny; made me think of you and @notsmokinjo dog talk over in Stick alley...

 

Hope you have a great new day as a non-smoker! 

Hey @Linda Thomas apologies for seeing this so late. Hope you are doing well, and hope your friend is better. 

 

She's in my prayers too. God bless you for the strength you've shown in keeping your quit. That's amazing. Stay strong.