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Ask yourself why do you want to keep doing the first miserable week/month.over and over again? Also don't worry about what your boyfriend is doing. He may not quit on the same day or week/month/year and that's ok because you have to want to quit for you. If you truly want to quit you'll do everything you can to protect that precious quit. I stayed glued to the forum all day everyday for the first year. I also stayed close to home and didn't go places that I knew people would be smoking for the first month or two. I also had a non smoker go with me shopping etc. Anything to stay quit. Are you ready to do what it takes?

Glad you're feeling a little better Christine, keep writing and getting your feelings out. I read my posts every month so I wouldn't forget where I came from. Your postings will do you well when you can look back at them and be thankful you got past it.

Boo is spot on. I thought of smoking non-stop too. That was one of the worst symptoms for me but then one morning I woke up in the best mood I had been in in years and smoking wasn't the first or last thing on my mind. You'll get there too. It was promised to me and now im promising you. Hang in there, it gets so much better

Another thing I did @christine 12 was when I was really having bad craves I would just go to bed hoping tomorrow was just a little better and it usually was. Did you try the air cigarette too?

Ok Shane have pleasant dreams

Is this your pre response to an SOS @christine 12? If so just keep reading it every hour. And before you know it you'll have another day quit

Shall I have a Q&A then?

Yes won't you tell us your shocker jo?

So is it a draw then? I still think mine was better what do you think jo?

That's not shocking at all Shane, it's kinda funny. What would have been shocking would have been saying you pulled up your briefs because always figured you as a boxer man You know what's shocking?

Shane you're not the type to renege are you?

Maybe I won with mine already?

Here's mine then

Do you not think I can compete?

You should totally do it to jo, don't you think Shane?

I'm just not sure what kinda shock I should give you, are you going to do a mellow one?

I'm not sure what kind of shock you're looking for so maybe you should go first and then we'll let jo judge?

Maybe mine doesn't warrant a question mark? On second thought since we're going for the shock maybe it should be over here amongst our friends?

Sure, should we put them in the confessions thread?

Of course silly, doesn't winner have a better ring to it then say LOSER?

So you're saying I win?

I'm not sure I really want to try to make you hate me so can we just call it a standoff?

Yes Christine, I agree just deal with one thing at a time. You're doing great and we're here for you

Is there a particular subject I should try or just surprise you?

Would you hate me if I admitted to not being a big fan of them?