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I'm so sorry, Jillar and I keep looking at bunny cartoons to help ease your loss but, they don't cut it. So, I just think of Beautiful Rabbit having hippity hoppity fun.

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I wish you the best of luck in finding a new position, Warbelian ! And I believe that taking steps to make your life better leads to many new avenues. Reward yourself a little for making the right decision !

well, don't like to miss any if I can help it, Porcini. 2

antidote

lagniappe 'a little something extra' widely used in NOLA my grocer gave me a few extra limes as lagniappe today.

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you just had to make me do this, lol

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Isn't it my big O time yet ? Such a tantalizing wait. sigh. 16

and out jumps a friend I pour in a years worth of excellent Cognac

Slathering my throat with home grown/homemade Lemon Basil Pesto. Thinking nice things about Jillar's Rabbit.

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I hope you never face any more horrible situations, Ankush but, life throws us challenges all the time and we must never put our quit in peril. I copied our friend, @Cristóbal's excellent post for you and for others dealing with life issues. YOUR QUIT & YOUR LIFE - THE PROPER SEQUENCE By Cristóbal, When our quits are young, we must learn and then practice in a conscious manner, to disconnect and keep separate our quits from all life events. We learn to always keep our quits sacred, protected, and never influenced by any life event that may happen. This dynamic we may call The Proper Sequence, and it is powered by your commitment to Never.Take.Another.Puff. (NTAP). It does not matter what may happen on any day in your life......as long as you maintain in a conscious manner The Proper Sequence dynamic as a primary element of your quit, you will not smoke. The Proper Sequence is: YOU --> QUIT --> LIFE. •NOT•: YOU --> LIFE --> QUIT. By maintaining this simple sequence dynamic in your quit, you will not ever have your quit influenced by life events. If you always keep your quit close to you, protecting it with your commitment to Never.Take.Another.Puff (NTAP), you will never, *EVER*, smoke again. We build our quits, and train our minds, our emotions, and our spirits to live as non-smokers in beautiful freedom by continuing to commit to NTAP. as our way of not smoking, and our way of slowly putting this awful addiction to sleep. Consciously adding The Proper Sequence dynamic to your new non-smoker identity will strengthen your quit even more. Cristóbal

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Wot Jo ?

Here is Joel's vid on Complacency that @Ankush mentioned.

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Now, I understand about 'quit date', Ankush, thank you for your explanation. Glad you are back on the good foot. NOPE your way through this, it is the only salvation.

stay on point, y'all.

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You are correct, @notsmokinjo I Hate to talk on the phone. Face to face OK but, I like correspondence the best.