April 30, 201412 yr I thought I was pretty well travelled and experienced a lot of what men could do. But I've just had the most mind blowing experience of my life. This guy approached my desk (I work on reception) and said "with all those piercings you must love anal" Simply amazing! As Louis Armstrong said "what a wonderful world" Objectification is great!
April 30, 201412 yr Author I really wanted to say something like "with all that fat you must be terrible in bed" but I just glared and pretended to type something important on my computer!
April 30, 201412 yr I really wanted to say something like "with all that fat you must be terrible in bed" but I just glared and pretended to type something important on my computer! It would have been justified. What an asshat!
April 30, 201412 yr I really wanted to say something like "with all that fat you must be terrible in bed" but I just glared and pretended to type something important on my computer! Oh my - one has to love the pretend to type - many an "important" document has been done this way !
April 30, 201412 yr It would have been justified. What an asshat! I think under those circumstances a punch in the nose or a kick in the balls (if he has any) would have been justified.
April 30, 201412 yr I think under those circumstances a punch in the nose or a kick in the balls (if he has any) would have been justified. Agreed. I don't understand why people think it's okay to make comments like that. I don't even know how to tell people no sometimes, lol. I would never think to say something so disgustingly inappropriate.
April 30, 201412 yr Life if miserable for some...so they get there kicks being dicks. You should have played with him and made him feel like an a**.
April 30, 201412 yr Author I get a lot of casual sexist comments at work or people handing me a business card telling me they're staying at such and such a hotel. Kinda used to it. I don't even mind the odd "nice arse" comment! Equally I do get some really sweet compliments and some cheeky ones. Many of which are inappropriate but its fine. And if its in good spirit I'll flirt back. Its almost part of the job working on reception. Its just when they're pointed or mean or derogatory and its simply not nice. And that was not nice.
April 30, 201412 yr Now we know you are a total dirt bird Sarah so hmmmmmm I wonder did you start the convo or do something to start it?
April 30, 201412 yr I get a lot of casual sexist comments at work or people handing me a business card telling me they're staying at such and such a hotel. Kinda used to it. I don't even mind the odd "nice arse" comment! Equally I do get some really sweet compliments and some cheeky ones. Many of which are inappropriate but its fine. And if its in good spirit I'll flirt back. Its almost part of the job working on reception. Its just when they're pointed or mean or derogatory and its simply not nice. And that was not nice. Yeah, there are boundaries for sure. There's a difference between playful and derogatory.
April 30, 201412 yr Sarah sounds like something off the TV. Not once has any woman ever given me her business card and told me where she is staying. Not has anyone ever shouted Nice Bum! I don't think there is anything wrong with my bum either... Guessing in the wrong job. Or us southerners aren't quite as forward lol :p
April 30, 201412 yr Oh Sarah - hear what you are saying ... But sorry - there is an age ... And unfortunately I am there - that 'nice arse " is the best compliment you get !! Now back to my squats and lunges !
April 30, 201412 yr Sarah sounds like something off the TV. Not once has any woman ever given me her business card and told me where she is staying. Not has anyone ever shouted Nice Bum! I don't think there is anything wrong with my bum either... Guessing in the wrong job. Or us southerners aren't quite as forward lol :P When I get hit on, I get hit on by creepy old men. I volunteered for a music festival a few years ago and this was back when I was still smoking. I took a break and was smoking just outside of the park. Some guy approached me (probably 50+) and started talking to me. He seemed nice enough, so I had a conversation with him. As I was leaving, he started asking me to go out for beers with him. I told him I wasn't interested because I had a boyfriend. He said something along the lines of "what your boyfriend doesn't know won't hurt him." I told him no again and was about to leave. He started telling me how he loved his women "thick" and how he bet my lady bits (ahem) were nice. I pretty much ran away from him back into the park and behind the protection of the security, lol. So creepy!
April 30, 201412 yr Author The other day I was printing a badge for someone and dropped it and it fell behind my desk. So I turned round and picked it up and handed it to him "thanks" he said "nice bum by the way!" And walked off. I don't mind that!
April 30, 201412 yr When I get hit on, I get hit on by creepy old men. I volunteered for a music festival a few years ago and this was back when I was still smoking. I took a break and was smoking just outside of the park. Some guy approached me (probably 50+) and started talking to me. He seemed nice enough, so I had a conversation with him. As I was leaving, he started asking me to go out for beers with him. I told him I wasn't interested because I had a boyfriend. He said something along the lines of "what your boyfriend doesn't know won't hurt him." I told him no again and was about to leave. He started telling me how he loved his women "thick" and how he bet my lady bits (ahem) were nice. I pretty much ran away from him back into the park and behind the protection of the security, lol. So creepy! Ewww, Creepy old perverts are just.... Creepy :( Sorry you went through that ((Leanna)). If it makes you feel any better, if women ever hit on me (and I mean a big IF) they are always older... A few weeks at the supermarket they asked wife for ID and said I didn't need any because they thought I 'could have been' her dad... :(
April 30, 201412 yr Ewww, Creepy old perverts are just.... Creepy :( Sorry you went through that ((Leanna)). If it makes you feel any better, if women ever hit on me (and I mean a big IF) they are always older... A few weeks at the supermarket they asked wife for ID and said I didn't need any because they thought I 'could have been' her dad... :( Awww, thanks (((Action)))). I'm so used to it... I attract the crazies. :P And that was rude of them! :( Your wife must look really young then. Judging by your pictures, I doubt you look like her dad. That's just ridiculous.
April 30, 201412 yr Author Oh give over Sarah you know you love the attention!I like the attention if its said nicely. But this guy was just creepy, and what did he expect me to say "oh yeah, I love it, want to take me over the desk right now?!" Its just weird!
April 30, 201412 yr Author Got 2 rings in on one side of my nose and a stud on the other side. 4 piercings up each ear (which he probably wouldn't have seen) and my tummy (which he didn't see!)
April 30, 201412 yr Ummmm... we need a new pict then. Wait is that creepy old manish? Yeah i made up a word...so what???
April 30, 201412 yr Sarah sounds like something off the TV. Not once has any woman ever given me her business card and told me where she is staying. Not has anyone ever shouted Nice Bum! I don't think there is anything wrong with my bum either... Guessing in the wrong job. Or us southerners aren't quite as forward lol :P you either got it or not lol, i get women commenting on my rear end often and have since i was young.... and somtimes the odd grope lol all in good fun you understand
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