September 30, 201411 yr Hey girls...a private question. Did any of you experienced any change on your sex drive after quitting? I´m totally turned off and I think this might be it because nothing has changed and my husband is as lovely as always. Thanks -Nat
September 30, 201411 yr Hey Nat: Actually, I think I have had the reverse. :S Earlier in my quit, sex was a really good distraction, lol. However, I have heard of this happening. I think our bodies just go through so many changes when we quit. Those changes are hard to adjust to and can make us feel pretty blah! I'm sure this is only temporary.
September 30, 201411 yr LOTS more blood going to all the right places makes for yummy yum times. :) You might be really delightfully surprised once you get into 'it'. so tell your disinterested side to chill out and go have a good time. a really good time. :)
September 30, 201411 yr That's worn off now, haha. I still have a sex drive, but nothing like before. This may be TMI and you don't have to answer, but are you feeling bloated/gassy at all? That might be why your sex drive is down. I know I was!
September 30, 201411 yr My husband was away for the first 4 months of my quit. So I can't help with this one.
September 30, 201411 yr My husband was away for the first 4 months of my quit. So I can't help with this one. God, I would go crazy!
September 30, 201411 yr Author That's worn off now, haha. I still have a sex drive, but nothing like before. This may be TMI and you don't have to answer, but are you feeling bloated/gassy at all? That might be why your sex drive is down. I know I was! No, I don´t feel bloated... and I´ve been told the opposite was going to happen! LOL That is was going to be even better! Plus, not being able to smoke after it really makes me anxious
September 30, 201411 yr Author My husband was away for the first 4 months of my quit. So I can't help with this one. 4 months??!! DD, how did you survive? hahaha
September 30, 201411 yr 4 months??!! DD, how did you survive? hahaha LOL I'm used to it. I've been with him through 16 deployments. :) I have a B.O.B. so I'm good.
September 30, 201411 yr Have a really, really long sex session, lol. That way, you're too exhausted to even think about getting up for one!
September 30, 201411 yr Author LOL I'm used to it. I've been with him through 16 deployments. :) I have a B.O.B. so I'm good. B.O.B. I had to look it up! LOL You´re awesome DD
September 30, 201411 yr I guess B O D would mean Blow Up Doll ? My friends got me a B O D for a birthday once when I was choosing poorly. He had a detachable BOB and a hideous face that was like a bad creepy Elvis Halloween mask. He melted in his box one Summer here and looked even stranger. Sometimes, I miss him, sort of. He was so nice and quiet well...quiet but for the humming, that is. :)
September 30, 201411 yr I guess B O D would mean Blow Up Doll ? My friends got me a B O D for a birthday once when I was choosing poorly. He had a detachable BOB and a hideous face that was like a bad creepy Elvis Halloween mask. He melted in his box one Summer here and looked even stranger. Sometimes, I miss him, sort of. He was so nice and quiet well...quiet but for the humming, that is. :) Dying over here, lol.
September 30, 201411 yr OMG he melted! Poor Bod. Nat I think that even though you aren't "in the mood" maybe try anyway and you might change your mind... Heck bring Bob into the mix too sometimes he helps.... yep this conversation is happening... lmao
September 30, 201411 yr I have a story, haha. My friend had a passion party (basically a party where you look at and buy sex toys). The passion party lady pulled out this big penis... I mean MASSIVE. She called it "chocolate thunder." She asked me what my boyfriend's name was and I told her Steve, so she told me to grip the shaft and pretend it was Steve's. I almost keeled over from laughing so hard and now I sometimes refer to Steve as my Chocolate Thunder.
September 30, 201411 yr Author LOL :lol22: I think DD meant a vibrator toy. Battery Operated Boyfriend.
September 30, 201411 yr Author Girls, I´m really laughing like crazy in front of the computer! OMG he melted! Poor Bod. Nat I think that even though you aren't "in the mood" maybe try anyway and you might change your mind... Heck bring Bob into the mix too sometimes he helps.... yep this conversation is happening... lmao Yep, I´,m going to try, sometimes that´s all it takes to bring the sparkle back. Poor Elvis-Bod!!
October 1, 201411 yr So I just tried to convince Steve to go to the bedroom. I can't believe this guy, lol. "But... there are more turnovers to eat."
October 1, 201411 yr I guess B O D would mean Blow Up Doll ? My friends got me a B O D for a birthday once when I was choosing poorly. He had a detachable BOB and a hideous face that was like a bad creepy Elvis Halloween mask. He melted in his box one Summer here and looked even stranger. Sometimes, I miss him, sort of. He was so nice and quiet well...quiet but for the humming, that is. :) L.ol....that's my sister.....
October 1, 201411 yr Ok,for some reason I missed this....but I'm here now..... For what reason I carnt imagine......I lost all interest in sex.... It doesn't have the same effect....when you have a oxygen machine right next to your bed....the size of a house.... Tubing gets tangled.....plus kissing is hard ,when one partner wears a oxygen mask.... a very very good reason to keep your quits..... Hugs xxxx
October 1, 201411 yr I have a story, haha. My friend had a passion party (basically a party where you look at and buy sex toys). The passion party lady pulled out this big penis... I mean MASSIVE. She called it "chocolate thunder." She asked me what my boyfriend's name was and I told her Steve, so she told me to grip the shaft and pretend it was Steve's. I almost keeled over from laughing so hard and now I sometimes refer to Steve as my Chocolate Thunder. L.ol.leanna.....lucky you honey.....
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