Nancy

Love this: I wrote this a while ago for someone who was struggling, and was asked to share it. This person had said that she was having waves of anxiety and smoking thoughts. I hope it can help someone! Ride the wave, man, it's like, gnarly. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- OK, I might be taking a metaphor too far here, but...you know how at the beach when you want to swim out beyond the breakers? To where it is nice and calm and you can just float. As you wade in, it seems like the waves keep wanting to push you back to shore. And at first they knock you over-- they tumble and toss you underwater; they throw you into the sand, and you can't even tell which way is up. But you are tenacious, and you want to get beyond the breakers. So this time you try to just pretend the waves aren't there. You turn your back to them and plant your feet, but they still smack you on the back; they leave a red mark and they push you over. But this time it didn't push you over all the way-- you are still in the water. You don't have to wade back anymore. The next wave that comes, you decide to turn your body sideways and jump a little bit. It feels weird to jump at first, but then you realize that you actually have more control that way. That little jump, that leap of faith, makes things so much easier. This time, you feel the power of the wave, but it doesn't hurt you. Next, you see a really big wave coming. It looks ominous. It's already starting to break. You know that if you try to stand up to it, it will just tumble your butt back to shore. It might rip off your bathing suit top while it's at it. You can't flail around, you can't turn your back, you can't even turn to the side. Instead, you take a deep breath, and you just dunk yourself underwater and wait for it to roll over you. You come back up, and you're a little panicked. Where are you?? But within an instant you realize that you are beyond the breakers, right where you want to be. Where it is calm, and you can see the shore, and just float. This time, you felt the power of the wave, and you allowed it to help you. I think you are at the point where you are turning yourself sideways. Hang on, pretty soon you will be diving headlong into those waves. I'll see you at the beach soon with my boogie board!

9...visiting Mom, no time!

One of my favorite posts....from member Paul723 "Your quit is like a baby you carry on your chest. You protect it from harm. You never leave it behind or discard it. You know anything someone says bad about it is a lie and you know it is the best thing you have. You don't let life come between you and your quit. You never think that something would be easier to do if you left it behind. This is simply not an option. You feel its heartbeat and you keep it warm and alive. And You Don't Smoke."

Huge congratulations! So happy for you and so glad you are here. Love you, mean it!

Pumkpin, as those taste buds wake up, be careful with your spices! The first time I had pizza, I put on my usual amount of crushed red pepper, and I was on fire. Another member did the same thing horseradish sauce on a sandwich! You are doing great!!

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-2 and Bakon is not ugly!! :wub:

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Wow...that is fabulous.

That makes me a big ZERO!

think it got a little mixed up...think I am 1

To all of those sticks trying to send me love notes...did not realize my messages were full... -1

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-3 thanks for fixing

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what about Doreen? I thought we doubled... -1

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so -1?

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