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Oh my goodness. I paid for years of therapy and I am still crying. I come here and you all lay it out for me. I feel so fortunate to have found this safe place of support and kindness. I know I can do this because I have you all to get me through the tough times. I have taken heed to your advice and know how important it is to protect myself and my quit.

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In case you haven't realised already (and maybe that's why I am late to the post so I can act as a reminder), YOU ARE AWESOME!!! You're caring, responsible and loving. You're bigger than your problems, because inspite of being questioned innumerable times on your responsibilities, you've grit your teeth and gone on and done your duty. I understand parental pressure, considering where I come from, parents definitely play a huge part in our lives and decisions for as long as they can, and I can understand the feeling of learning you've disappointed your parent. But I totally agree with everyone who's mentioned that for some people, whatever you do is never enough, and that's their problem, not yours Linda. Please stay strong, be gentle with yourself. You are brilliant, beautiful, caring and that's more than a lot of human beings on this planet are. You're a star Linda, don't let anything or anyone dim your light.

Definately don't be ashamed of come close, my trigger point was having to go 14 hours with coffee um..yeah that's kinda a bit pathetic...but don't be ashamed, be fricking proud, rejoice, jump for joy you stared that temptation down, flicked that monkey off ya shoulder and did not smoke... That's what you focus on, not I nearly smoke... Focus on I did not smoke...because that is the Silver lining... You were tested, you were not found wanting, you did not fail.

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Congratulations @Wendy for being 4 years smoke free. Hope you are doing something special to celebrate today and pop in to let us know how wonderful four years of smoke freedom feels.

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Welcome aboard ...maybe you read spend some time reading here while your chilling out .. Looking forward to getting to know you better ...

Hi all, just wanted to check in and say it's been 3 weeks, 2 days and I feel good. I am still using the patch, I see my doctor next week & I think I'll ask him to lower the dose. Not sure if it is time yet, but I'll ask.

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I know you all care. You have all worked so hard to make me a non smoker. Your dedication and encouragement means so much to me. Thanks for helping me through.

Well may or may not be good timing. Headed out on tropical vacay tomorrow that is non smoking resort. I,figured as good as time as any, especially since been trying 2 quit since New Years. I have never made it more than 2 weeks with the exception of pregnancies quit the entire time then. The times of have made it 2 weeks has been because taking test for health insurance. Very shameful closet smoker, try to keep hidden. So envious of people who never started. Hoping warm weather helps, but will still be tempted to sneak down the block. Just trying to remember how many people I know who have quit, including my parents, etc. .

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Welcome! We have similar stories. I quit while pregnant. I was a closet smoker. Quitting improved my health, skin, finances & all the usual stuff. As a closet smoker- the freedom had the most impact on me staying quit. Well, that and the terrible first few weeks of my quit- I never wanted to relive quitting so I didn’t relapse. The constant blanket of anxiety I lived under was finally lifted. No more- do I smell like smoke? Can I sneak out for a smoke? What errand can I make up so I can leave for a smoke? When will this meeting end so I can take a lunch alone & go smoke. Did I sweep the ashes off the porch and empty the ashtray? A non-smoking resort will help. Plenty of activities to stay busy. Check back in as often as you need to keep your quit going. NOPE

Welcome aboard ajtvobsessed. I think going to a non smoking resort is a great way to kick start your quit. Just make sure you don't have any cigarettes hidden. You can't smoke what you don't have right?!

This little guy has it right !!!

It's OK to wobble sweetheart ...just make sure you don't fall over ... I had a wise Old Pharte say that to me ,when I needed to hear it ... You didn't fall over ...we are all so proud of you ..xxxx

You Linda are the bomb!! Always remember that. We need the sunshine you bring here. Chin up and be proud for all you've accomplished.

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In my weak moments, I let that needy child creep out. I so know better than this. It has just been a very long, nonstop week. The pull of the addiction takes advantage of those weak moments. I am a little ashamed at coming so close. Know that I will be sure to protect my quit. I am getting stronger and know that I need to step back right now. I am sure my Dad is out of danger now and do not feel I need to be there all the time. Thanks for your loving words.

Your resolve to keep your quit is stronger than your mother’s ability to hurt you. The power is yours. Not hers. Coming here for help and some good ears shows how much you value yourself and your quit. Let your quit grow. It will empower you.

I'm sorry how things are going with your mom but I'm glad you posted an SOS and fought your way through this. Lighting up a cigarette will not change the situation for the better in any way whatsoever. You are doing a truly great thing in quitting smoking. This is a huge accomplishment many people really struggle with. As Paul723 said, you should be very proud of what you have accomplished by quitting. Gain strength from that. Many smokers would love to be where you are now. Don't let anything ruin your fantastic quit.

Linda , you helped talk me off the ledge the other day when I was going over. You have done so much good and have helped so many people here with your kind words and caring. Now it's our turn. Hang in there and stay strong. You are a super lady! Don't let anyone make you think less. You can and will do this, you have worked to hard to go back now. Stay true darlin and know we are all thinking and wishing you the best.

Gday A news report from Australia where it’s not legal to sell vaping liquids that contain nicotine. Testing has shown over 1/2 do contain nicotine. https://www.abc.net.au/news/2018-06-12/not-all-e-juices-are-as-nicotine-free-as-they-claim/9857540 Pretty disturbing as many unwitting are putting nicotine into bodies.

Omg this was seriously a draw...a complete 3 way split..didn't see that coming....our first official tied poll.

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Im sorry to read this @Linda Thomas, the last few years my mother had moments like that (real bad) and she was diagnosed with dementia. They put her on buspar to control the outbursts. It really does tear you down and you're a strong one as when i first started dealing with a sick parent i blew my 2 1/2 year quit. I would have your mom checked as god bless her age but if she has signs it is best thing to do

Mark L. Rubinstein, Kevin Delucchi, Neal L. Benowitz, Danielle E. Ramo http://pediatrics.aappublications.org/content/141/4/e20173557 Download the or view the PDF: e20173557.full.pdf Article Information Published online April 02, 2018 Pediatrics Vol. 141 No. 4 April 01, 2018 e20173557 doi: 10.1542/peds.2017-3557 PubMed 29507165 Published By American Academy of Pediatrics Print ISSN 0031-4005 Online ISSN 1098-4275

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We love you too Linda. OK Gunna be blunt... Your mum is a bitch, she is also ungrateful not just to you and your family but ungrateful for the blessings and advantages life bestowed upon her. Sure be angry at her, she deserves that from you and be disappointed but don't forget to pity the miserable old cow...she feels so sad with her life that her only way to feel better and safe within her self is to cut her only daughter to shreds? You don't have problems darl she does.. you, are amazing...despite the horrors of life, despite the abusive upbringing you: *Broke the cycle and became a warm, open loving, giving and caring woman. *You are rising above the scars and taking back your self worth. *You are developing a backbone of steel but still have a heart of fricking gold.

Okay. I am good. Cried it out. I think you truley understand and got my back. Thanks. Don't want to inconvenience Doreen to have her fly out here. Love you all.

Linda I'm going to say this out of concern for YOU. I truly hope you see it as caring advice and not criticism. You're allowing yourself to be treated like a doormat. Maybe the way to get the type of praise she bestows upon your brothers is to treat her like your brothers do. In other words, step back. She is not likely to change at age 90. You're the one who needs change. Give her the ultimatum that this constant disapproval will no longer be tolerated. Either she can stop this abusive behavior or you'll join your brothers in disregarding her. You'll never be the perfect daughter by enabling this unacceptable behavior. That said, even if you continue this relationship as you always have, please understand that your quit is the one positive gift you have given yourself. Don't let your mother damage that too. Wishing you only the best in these difficult times. Keep your beautiful quit!

It's sad Sweetheart your mother carnt see what a loving caring beautiful daughter she has ....this is her failing ..not yours ... Linda ....you are not responsible for any one else ....some folks will never change ,no matter what you do for them... Your Quit is yours ...dont lose it ,because of someone else .... Stop trying ...remind yourself ..your doing the best you can right now ...and that's all anybody can do ... You can PM me anytime ...you stay strong ....xxx

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